Shifting your Goal one step to the side – revise the reason why
Shifting Goal from your own needs to the desire to ensure a parent is receiving the best quality care after an illness. A perfect beautiful reason to work hard or smart at creating your website, using a selfless motive as your inspiration. Sure beats thinking about the supercar you want parked on your driveway. Care of an Elderly parent will be astronomical as you will eventually find out for yourselves. But with the right mind-set, you’ll see the total love and honour in doing what’s necessary for the most important persons in your family.
I don’t need the superfast car, the expense watches and or the Big mansion, before I need to see my mother taken care of. I do need the money. That stays the same all the way along the line.
I haven’t given up on the goals I’ve set for myself. No I’m just bending a little, with a deviation from the path. You could look at this as a mini milestone to be achieved, that proves you’re on the way to your own rewards.
Once the initial mini goal is achieved, you can divert your attentions back on the own desires.